Seating/Reception problems!

posted 2 years ago in Reception
Post # 2
1300 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

I can give you advice.  I had the same situation and decided on a sweetheart table only.  I’ve already asked people to be in my wedding and they spent money for my wedding the least I could do is seat them with their guest.  Plus our photographer said a sweetheart table with just the two of us gives great pictures.  

Post # 3
795 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’d just have a sweetheart table. 

Post # 4
2791 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Walnut Hill Bed & Breakfast

I’ve been to several weddings that my fiance was in and i was not.  At all of them I did know someone else (either other friends or family) and was sat with them – this was no problem for me. I just didn’t get to eat dinner with him. (I do that all the time anyways! Seriously no big deal.) If they SO’s of the bridal party really don’t know anyone else at the wedding then I’d consider having them sit together at a table.  They’ll likely have something in commond and it’s fun to meet new people? Have their table up front near the bridal party table. (This is probably what I am going to have to do. But only 1 of them won’t know anyone else – if he even decides to come.) 

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 1 month ago by  amberback.
Post # 5
1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

I know you said you don’t want to do a sweetheart table, but maybe try to consider it.  That’s what we did and it was great.  We had the same problem, and had two tables on either side of us with our wedding party & their SOs.  Visually it was very appealing, and everyone was happy. 🙂

Post # 6
2915 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

I had reservations about seperating couples, too. DH and I had a few arguments about it, and eventually he won. I sat the bridal party at the head table, and put the significant others at a different table with either people they knew, or who I knew would mesh well. It was totally fine! my friends understood. I’d say it sounds like the easiest way to handle your situation. Plus, it is commonly done, and I think bp members have to kind of expect it.

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