Second bachelor party…after wedding??

posted 3 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Would you be okay with it?
    Yep, totally cool. : (16 votes)
    31 %
    Not really, but I'd let him go anyway. : (15 votes)
    29 %
    No way. : (17 votes)
    33 %
    I'm not sure. : (4 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 2
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    laurabora:  If this were my husband, I’d let them surprise him and give him the decision whether or not he wants to go out or not. He can let them know he’s more of a low key guy and maybe thats why they weren’t invited to the original bachelor party (unless they just couldn’t make it to the first one). At this rate though I wouldn’t really call it a bachelor party anymore. It’s more or less just seems like an excuse to go out and drink/have a good time. If its not a good weekend to do this, maybe he could arrange something with them for another weekend that works for everything to go out and celebrate the marriage! 

    Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    If they want to go out, fine.  But it’s not a bachelor party!

    Post # 4
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    9533 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I don’t think you can have a bachelor party if you are no longer a bachelor. But that doesn’t mean that brothers and guy friends can have a fun boys night out!

    Post # 5
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I agree with a PP, it’s not a bachelor party at all. BUT I would let my husband make his own decision and not insert my opinion at all.

    Post # 6
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    laurabora:  I mean, if it’s just getting together at a bar with his buddies to drink and watch a game.. cool. Now that you’re married if they want to try and do the whole stripper thing I’d say hell no but that’s just me.

    Post # 7
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    598 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015 - Dreams Las Mareas - Costa Rica

    oneofthesethings:  agreed!

    What kind of activites?  Of course he can go out with the boys… thats no big deal. That will happen throught the marriage… but BACHELOR party? What exactly does that entail?

     

    Post # 9
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It’s a boys night out.

    Post # 10
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

     

    Well since you’re married, it’s no longer a bachelor party…it’s a night out with the guys. I find it weird that they feel the need to label it a bachelor party instead of just saying “hey, let’s do a guy’s night since we didn’t all get together before the wedding.” I would be annoyed by the fact that they want to call it a bachelor party and treat it like one…not that they all want to hang out without girlfriends/wives

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Bizarre!  Once you’re married and have an infant, I think the time for bachelor parties has passed.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Married with a baby =/= bachelor to me.  If his brother and friends want to spend some time with him while he’s in town, I think it’s fine.  However, I would wonder why they feel the need to call it a “bachelor party.”

    Post # 15
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    6028 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

     

    laurabora:  yeah, I wouldn’t be cool with it then. I mean, if they want to go to a strip club that’s fine. But I’d be pissed if they went there and told the girls he was the “bachelor” and bought him lap dances and shit. It needs to be simply a guy’s night out or nothing. Sorry, not sorry.

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