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    Maestro    10/10/10   Baltimore

    I've noticed a trend recently with brides changing into a second dress for their reception, and at first I thought it was excessive. We're having a second, more casual reception after we get back from our honeymoon for local friends we can't invite to our first reception, and I've been toying around with the idea of buying a second dress for two reasons:

    1. My dress is very ornate, pretty heavy, and not too easy to move in. I want to be able to enjoy the up-tempo songs on the dance floor with our guests and think that it'd be much easier and more comfortable in a shorter, simpler silhouette.
    2. My dress doesn't match the casual feel of our second reception, so I'd like for this possible second dress to do double duty as my first reception dancing dress after we've done all of the milestone-type things in my first dress (first dances, cake cutting, toasts, dinner, etc.) AND as my second reception dress.

    What do you all think? Is this excessive? Is it worth the extra expense? Has anyone done this and been happy with their decision, or not and wished that they would've opted for two dresses? Any insight anyone has to offer is welcome and appreciated.

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    In your case, I would totally get another dress to wear to the more casual reception! I think it;s entirely appropriate, and I would do the same :)

    You could probably go a little less tradtional, too, and get something more on the fun side, like a shorter dress and killer heels. Have fun with it!

     
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    alundberg    February 13, 2010  

    I am a one-dress bride, and my best friend who got married last May wore 2 dresses. I thought it was rediculous, because she wasn't as comfortable in the 2nd dress, and ended up changing back INTO the first dress. I think she just wanted to have 2. LOL. :)

    But for you, 2 dresses seems like a good idea for traveling, and a casual reception. You can probably find a super-cute white bridesmaids dress, or even a white summer-time dress to wear!! Good luck, it sounds like a great option for you!!

     
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    jennfer    October 31, 2009   St. Louis, Mo.

    For your situation, it seems totally warranted. Especially since the second reception is a bit after the first and with a different crowd.

     
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    beffielou       NC- Triad Area

    I was a 2-dress bride and was so happy with my decision!  I chose a short flirty dress so I could get out and party (we even had an afterparty at a bar).  My only regret was that I missed out on some of the fun while changing clothes. :o(

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    It sounds like you know you won't be happy during the second reception unless you're wearing something you can move in! I'd start looking for a second dress and there's lots of inexpensive options, like bridesmaid dresses, white formal dresses, etc. Since you don't want a train, it should be fairly simple to find :-)

     
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    Maestro    10/10/10   Baltimore

    Thanks to everyone for all of the insight already. The positive feedback is definitely making my decision easier.

     
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    futuredrbraun    May 15, 2010  

    I would definitely opt for the second dress if I were you!! It sounds like a shorter, more casual, easier to move in dress would be much more comfortable and fit your second reception better :)

     
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    texasmeredith      

    If I were in your shoes, I'd do the second dress too.  

     
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    TingTing    September 12, 2010   Los Angeles

    why not? do it! :)

     

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