(Closed) Second guessing everything

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2293 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

That’s exactly the problem – you make the decision and then there are months and months to think about it!  I am basically refusing to even look at other options after the decision.  No more dress shopping, no more invitation samples…  it’s really hard though.  But I know I will drive myself crazy if I keep looking at other options after making the first choice.

The craziest part is that I know exactly what I want – its only when it comes right down to time to order it that I get waffly.  I have also instructed my mom and my sister and my FI to make me stick to my decisions once they are made.  The remind me of all the reasons I picked what I did, and that helps me when I get doubtful about whether its the right choice after all.

Post # 4
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117 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

so i’ve made a practice of talking to my FH about any new ideas that i have…he then reminds me (as if i don’t already know) that we’ve talked about centerpieces (or whatever it is) like 5 times before and that we have already made a decision…or he’ll remind me what’s really important, that we’re getting married and our friends and family will be there to witness it and i snap back…that doesn’t stop me from looking at things but it does make me realize how obsessive i’ve become…

Post # 5
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385 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

One place I totally screwed my budget- I was indecisive… I spent over $100 trying to decide on invitations and what not, then ended up going back to my ORIGINAL decision… Then the dress thing. Oh gosh… Seriously. I bought a $12 dress online and it just needed a few alterations, but I was like ohhhh but I don’t LOVE it… Spent over $300 on materials and patterns and the zipper broke as I was putting it on… and I ended up wearing the $12 dress after all!

My biggest decision- ask your FH and then stick to the decision. Everything will come together! I promise!

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