Post # 1
HELP! I’m second guessing every decision I’ve made. I’m now wondering if we picked the right venue, the right photographer, if I should go back to the drawing board and start reviewing caterers AGAIN. I’m even questioning the dress that I love so much (but haven’t purchased yet). Tell me this is normal and that I don’t need to start over!!
Post # 3
There’s only one thing that is important when it comes to second guessing, are you second guessing your FI? If not everything else is just fluff. As they say on multiple choice tests, go with your first instinct. Relax, you’re marrying your best friend and it’s going to be awesome.
Post # 4
I would say that it’s completely normal to second guess so many decisions. Whenever I was in a rut and kept wondering if I’d made the right decisions, I would ask FI to remind me why we had made our choices. He was always able to make me feel better about the decisions. Don’t fret! It happens to the best of us.
Post # 5
@Eckle: I am definitely NOT second guessing FH. He is wonderful and amazing and I can’t imagine my life without him. I’m just second guessing our venue (which is really gorgeous and I loved it right away) I’m worried I picked the wrong photographer (but again, loved her instantly and I love her photos) I’m worried that I’ve picked the wrong everything – even though I loved it all to begin with. I guess I’m afraid everyone else will hate it (for some reason I care about these things…)
@Mrs. Blue Whale: unfortunately FH isn’t so good at being reassuring on this, he thinks I’m wedding crazy (and maybe I am and that’s the problem). He usually just laughs at me (not in a bad way). Thankfully my BM J is wonderful and keeps me in check.