second thoughts on putting my family on the guest list

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m so sorry!  Ugh…  It’s hard for me to say since I’m not IN the situation, but it seems like it’d be putting the ball in her court to send her an invite, and then if she doesn’t show it’s HER being the ass.  However, her showing up would take a lot of the focus away from your day, which could be annoying, so perhaps see her face-to-face before?  Show up at her house since she’s ignoring you?  Although things could get pretty ugly.  Anyways, she should know if she missed your WEDDING there’s no “fixing” that..  that’s super harsh.  I hope she has a change of heart and does the right thing.  xo

Post # 4
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  • Wedding: September 2013

I do feel like if you don’t invite her, she can say, “oh poor me, my daughter didn’t invite me to her wedding, she’s so mean” but if you DO invite her then she’s the jerk if she doesn’t come.  So you’d be “being the bigger person.”  But like I said before, if the first time you see her is ON your wedding day, that’s too stressful and you don’t need that.  Maybe see if you can get her to meet for coffee (or whatever) at least once before then, not so much to fight, but just to say, “hey let’s be nice to each other please?”  Good luck!!!! 

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