Seeking advice on relationship issues

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 1969

So I dont know how much help I could be, as I am so far in my longest relationship now, its been 9 months, and yes we have had our ups and downs. It seems to be a pretty normal thing in any relationship, you cant always agree on things and yes it may turn into bickering if you dont, but if your willing to forgive and forget so quickly, that just shows how much you are willing to put things behind you for the sake of your relationship. 

I dont know about the sex, I guess yeah I dont initiate that often, and hes often too tired to have sex. But we do try and have sex every few days. Maybe you need to organise a night for you two, do something special and lead it to somewhere that may bring back sexual memories creating the moment. 

I know what its like to love someone so much that you are willing to put things behind you

Post # 3
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2679 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I had a very similar situation. I met my fiance while in a volitile relationship, and we got together shorty after it ended. A few years later we moved away to a new city. I started to get very depressed because I was in a dead end job, and had no friends. Soon, we started bickering a lot and our sex life just stopped. I was lucky enough to luck into a group of friends and we started to turn things around. I think what it comes down to is that you each need to do something outside of work and your relationship. Maybe going to the gym or joining a class of some sort or something. Ours just so happened to be table top gaming. If you two love each other it will work itself out if you find something constructive to focus your extra energy on.

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