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Jewish FI and I (good ELCA Lutheran gal) are looking for a rabbi to co-officiate (with a Lutheran pastor) at our wedding.

I will not be converting to Judaism, and though we do hope to raise children in both faiths, would not raise them exclusively Jewish.  I know this is a sticking point for many rabbis, but that's the deal. 

We don't have a date yet and would be willing to be married on a non-Saturday day if that's a necessary condition for said rabbi.

Recommendations, please!  Much appreciated.