(Closed) selecting bridesmaids

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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368 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m having 4 bridesmaids.  Like you, there were a few others that I COULD ask.  But these 4 were my absolute essential girls, and I decided it’d be most meaningful to me if just they were my bridesmaids.

Post # 4
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85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m also having 4 but it was a really easy decision for me. 

Post # 6
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23 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@AmandaShea8:  You can invite anyone you want to the bachelorette party and showers; it’s not just for maids.  🙂  Also, have as many maids as you want – 1 or 8!  I’m only having 1 attendant b/c I want the rest of my friends to attend the wedding, wear whatever they want, and have a ball without having to be involved in the backstage aspect of the event.  I’ve found as I’ve gotten older, I’d much rather just be invited to a friend’s wedding rather than be in it!  No matter how low-key the bride, there is always drama – and def not necessarily always coming from the bride, either.  Getting more than 2 women to feel good about the way they look in identicial dresses?  Always fun!  Good luck asking your girls!  I hope it goes wonderfully! 

Post # 7
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327 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m only having 4 because while I could have asked others, I knew who I wanted by my side and didn’t feel the need to ask people “just because”.  I wanted it to be my closest friends and didn’t really worry about the rest

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