Post # 1
So the SO let me know tonight that he’s been in contact with the etsy seller that is selling this vintage ring that I am absolutely in love with, but won’t give me any other details (he wanted I think originally that everything be a surprise, so I think this is a compromise). Of course, I don’t know his user names or passwords or anything…but I thought, hey let me try…. and WAHT DO YOU KNOW I LOGGED IN. But I can’t look in his messages, I need to let him do all the surprising, I know I know. No snooping! But ahhhhh!!! Please let this all have a happy ending after I had to basically have a “talk” about the future— in which I had to let him know he had to get his stuff together or I had to make alternate plans for my life. ANYHOW. Exciting news. Trying to keep myself from being nosy 🙂
Post # 3
Ooh I’m excited for you! Keep us updated 🙂
Post # 4
STOP SNOOPING! Lol. I know it’s exciting, but it’ll happen. This is great news.
Post # 5
@HeyKaraoke: Hey! Are you getting married in Pittsburgh? I’m living there now!
Post # 6
Keep yourself busy by going to get a manicure (you will want your hands to look good when showing it off!).
Good luck and enjoy your moment!
Post # 7
This sounds awesome, but as the other ladies have said — don’t ruin the surprise for youself!! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you! 🙂
Post # 8
Wow, you’re doing really well. I would have immediately read his messages!!!
Just remember, the big moment will be sooo much better if you’re surprised! Stay strong!!
Post # 9
Oh man I would have totally read his messages too! lol. It will happen soon!
Post # 10
I know by October…but that’s such a long time! Ahhhh! What is the hold up? I mean, the whole buying a ring thing…. was only after I laid it all out. I need a commitment. It’s been almost 4.5 years, and I will be needing to look for a job soon (we’re currently LD). By this point, you either know or you don’t know. And there was no reason he could give me why he wasn’t ready. Sigh. So I think we made some progress. I think he didn’t realize that life doesn’t just happen the way you want it unless you make a plan- ridiculous I know! If you want something to happen, you make it happen! Sigh. I know, be happy there is progress, but it’s still hard. For my mom, it’s like, your father couldn’t WAIT to marry me, he wanted to be with me, there was no pushing and pulling. I don’t think that because I had to make him realize he was complacent and not making any decisions means he doesn’t truly want to be with me, but it’s stil hard… who doesn’t want to be wanted?