(Closed) Send Invite to Ex-MOH?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

actually, I am going through something similar. A 13 year friendship – just stopped. Suddenly, but not without lack of trying on my part. Hurtful things were said and we have not spoken in months. I wish her luck in whatever paths her life takes her down, but she will not be getting an invite to my wedding. I only want those there on my special day who I know I can count on. I live in a small town also and we still have several mutual friends, so I am welcoming the drama to come behind this with open arms. I will say my peace then to those who have something to say about it. It is my wedding, and yes I did try to salvage the friendship…. but there comes a time when people move on. This is that time.

Good luck in whatever you choose to do! But think to yourself before you drop her invite in the mail…. is she the type to show up and do something spiteful? Would she even show up to support you?

Post # 4
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303 posts
Helper bee

If it’s a small gossipy town, then everyone probably knows about the falling out already. You don’t want to invite her, she doesn’t want to come. Seems cut and dry to me!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Seems like you already invited her and she declined to me, whether or not it was a formal invitation written on paper and mailed to her.

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