(Closed) Send invited to photographer, etc.?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Did you send an invite to caterers, venue, photographer, etc.?
    Yes : (1 votes)
    3 %
    No : (37 votes)
    97 %
  • Post # 3
    Hostess
    18646 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I’ve never heard of this before.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1710 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    No, isn’t that what the contract is for?  All they need to know is date, time, and the agreed upon services to be rendered.

    Post # 6
    Member
    3689 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Are you asking if you’re supposed to treat your vendors to dinner?  Or if you’re just supposed to remind them your date, time, and location?  Either way, there’s no need to send them invitations.  They’re working, not guests.  And the details of when and where should be worked out in the contract.

    Post # 7
    Member
    3569 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I did send them STD, because we had extras & we became buddy-buddy with some of them (photog, band).. but I didn’t send them an invitation.

    Post # 8
    Member
    10454 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I wouldn’t unless they were actually “friendors”. 

    Post # 9
    Member
    3265 posts
    Sugar bee

    @Amsy28:  Absolutely not.  They are not invited guests, they are people you have contracted to provide a service.

     

    Post # 10
    Member
    7309 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    @Amsy28: 

    No, they’ll be all excited about the invitation and then so sad to realize, oh wait — it’s just a gig.

    Post # 11
    Member
    7904 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    You should sent the officiant (and his/her partner) an invitation, but you don’t need to “invite” any of the other vendors.

    Post # 12
    Member
    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @Amsy28:  I sent one to our wedding coordinator and photographer. Our photographer mentioned how much she loves receiving invitations from her clients. It also helps them better understand the theme or feeling of the wedding. Of course I didn’t do it to remind them of the date/time!!

    I can’t believe so many people voted no!!!

    Post # 13
    Member
    27 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    No, but I did send one to my Catholic priest who is the officiant. I felt that he needed one so he knew he was welcome to the reception afterwards.

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