(Closed) Sending a thank you text after a first date?

posted 2 weeks ago in Relationships
Post # 211
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376 posts
Helper bee

Sansa85 :  

Sansa85 :  I see you’re friends with the disgusting girl that got off from her dad giving her a massage and posted on wedding beasking if he was a pedophile when in fact she was the one that was disgusting and probably using her father? I knew there were sick people on the internet but that’s just going overboard I still can’t believe till this day that she would post such a question on a public forum

Post # 212
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Blessed143 :  whoa, You really need to take a time out. You’ve been blowing up fights with all kinds of bees who don’t normally get into arguments. 

This latest bit of you throwing someone’s trauma in their face is beyond low. Very uncool. 

Post # 213
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376 posts
Helper bee

thegirlwithoutapearlearring :  stop saying that I’m demented you are the stupid idiot that posted on a public forum saying that you got turned on by your father and you kept asking him for massages even though your mother told you not to and now you’re asking everybody on this forum if he was a child molester? If anybody is demented and needs help it’s you you are disgusting person to be speaking such nonsense about your father who has done nothing wrong to you. Your lack of sex drive has nothing to do with you abusing your father and having him touch you in a way that you felt turned on by and which he probably felt was innocent

Post # 214
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1295 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

Blessed143 :  

I’m not dignifying that with a response.

Post # 215
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376 posts
Helper bee

BalletParker :   I appreciate you trying to bring something to my attention but the same bees have been following me around on every thread.  never responded to any of these fees they respond with such nonsense and I’m sorry I’m not the type to shut up  when someone accuses me of saying something I didn’t let alone someone accusing their father of sexual abuse when they were the one asking to be touched. Told her to stop asking her father for massages cuz it was inappropriate and she still continue to do so and now she’s crying that he abused her you are a disgrace girl I can’t believe you would accuse your father for something like that

Post # 216
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2779 posts
Sugar bee

Blessed143 :  Ok this is going into insane crazy territory. You are legit creeping me out. If you think you do know  me in person please PM me so we can sort that out. In the meantime, here is the history of our communication on the bee (to my knowledge):

1) we have a pleasant exchange in “dilemma, different religions & cultures / my parents don’t approve.” You ask me about my interfaith wedding and I happily tell you. You tell me it sounds lovely and give me blessings. Anyone who is interested can see the exchange here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/dilemma-different-religions-cultures-my-parents-dont-approve/#post-10760781

2) you lose your shit in girlwithoutthepearlearring’s now-deleted thread. I don’t recognize your username there (who remembers the username of every  bee they interact with once???), and I call you out on the nasty things you’re saying to this girl who came here asking for  advice about a very sensitive matter. You respond by saying I must be pissed because my church kicked me out or smoething (which isn’t even true!).

3) you change your username and once again spew nasty shit in the current thread. Not recognizing you again, I reply to your unhinged remarks saying you need to take it down a notch, cause you do! Yet again, you bring up my religious background. It is CREEPY. Please stop. Please get help.

 

Post # 217
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9351 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Oh, I see. We have an agenda to discredit another bee’s traumatic feelings.

All this is doing is making it look like her feelings have more validity than she might have thought.

ETA: I see you’ve responded to me, saying she asked for this. You really need to step off. This is beyond unacceptable on your part. 

Post # 218
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376 posts
Helper bee

Sansa85 :  that’s because it’s true you know she did that thread yesterday and how everybody reacted saying he did not abuse her and she just kept crying wolf and now blames her own sexual relationship or lack thereof with her husband on her father that’s absolutely ridiculous we all go through hard times that doesn’t mean you have to blame somebody who’s innocent

Post # 219
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1295 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

Blessed143 :  

That has absolutely zero to do with this thread, you voiced your opinion on the now deleted thread, why are you posting here about it, hijacking the thread and violating the tos?

I see plenty of the same user names. Some I always agree with, some I never do, and sometimes I’m surprised when I actually agree with someone.

Not once have I ever thought that any of them followed me. That’s a pretty scary level of paranoia that you might want to explore with a specialist.

Post # 220
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376 posts
Helper bee

BalletParker :  i DID NOT SAY SHE ASKED FOR IT. 

Her mother told her to stop asking her dad to give her massages because it was inappropriate and she continued to do so. 

She said she got turned on by him touching her. 

All the bees said it wasnt abuse and I told her Im not a professional and can’t make that determination without the facts but that she should seek some professional guidance.  That is all. 

Post # 221
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Honey Beekeeper

This thread is closed for review.

Post # 222
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2779 posts
Sugar bee

Welp, I’ve put multiple flags on this thread (something I’ve never done before in my nearly 2 yrs on the bee), so before it gets closed I just want to say to the OP  that you rock and the right guy is out there for you, dont be disheartened cause the first dude you went out with in awhile wasn’t the right fit! You are confident and awesome – you got this! 🙂

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