(Closed) Sending invitations question…

posted 8 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would say yes if you actually want to invite them (or ought to).

For example, if you were inviting all your aunts and uncles, but you know for a fact that Aunt Sue and Uncle Bobby won’t attend, you still should send them an invitation.  If they were to talk to the other aunts and uncles and discover they didn’t receive an invitation, they would be offended, regardless of whether they would attend or not.

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2010 - The Green Room at the War Memorial Veterans Building

Yep, you should still send a paper invite so they can formally decline.

But be prepared to end up where I am, where these folks don’t actually formally decline by sending the RSVP card back!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yes, you should send one.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper

Are these people you actually want to invite?  Meaning, if they were to RSVP yes, would you be ok with them coming?  If so – send them an invite.  If not, it sounds like you may want to do more of a wedding announcement (to be sent out after the wedding)

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