Sent a Save-the-Date, but is this a good enough reason to not invite?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should Jen still invite Lisa?
    Yes : (8 votes)
    32 %
    No : (17 votes)
    68 %
  • Post # 3
    1719 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t think it would be awful at all.

    Lisa has done things that make it seem as if she prefers to not be around Jen. Jen doesn’t need to invite people who don’t want to be around her to her wedding. 

    Post # 4
    66 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    If she wants to invite her that’s fine, if she doen’t that’s fine too. At the end of the day, she should do what makes her comfortable. If she’s not okay with her there then don’t invite her. After all, it is her and her fiance’s day and they are the ones paying for food, drinks, seating, etc..

    Post # 5
    11379 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Janielum:  it sounds like lisa only lied to jen because she didn’t want jen to feel bad for not sending her an invite to the wedding.  lisa was not obligated to invite jen but she shouldn’t have lied.

    jen has sent lisa a std already.  she is considering not sending her an invite now because lisa lied to her?  or because jen wasn’t invited to lisa’s wedding?  or both?

    i think if you send a std, you should really send an invite.  jen obviously wanted lisa at her wedding at one point. 

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