(Closed) Sent a text to my boss that was about my boss!!! HELP!

posted 6 years ago in Career
Post # 3
1695 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@Mrs.Elephant:  I guess just act like nothing happened.  If she mentions it to you, you can say something, but otherwise, just leave well enough alone!  🙂 

Post # 4
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

It sounds like she likely agreed with what you wrote, so in that token, I wouldn’t stress too much about offending her. I would still likely apologize in person though. And hey, it’s 4 more days, you’ll all forget about it soon enough.


Post # 5
9627 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@greenviolets:  Agree with this. 

She seems to be ok with it.  Don’t bring it up unless she does.

Post # 6
1414 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ouch…… :-0

BUT…you only have 4 more days that you have to work there.

I don’t think you have to worry.

Live and learn.

Post # 7
1621 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh Man!

Well you apologized and she accepted, I would just leave it at that unless she syas something.

Post # 8
1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think you’re totally fine – you are SO lucky. You clearly must’ve been correct about him, because she seems to agree with you. I wouldn’t worry about it and I wouldn’t bring it up again – she might not be comfortable talking about it purely because it’s like admitting his shittiness is noticeable to everyone, not just her.

Post # 9
1643 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I wouldn’t worry about it….  if she brings it up then address it, but mistakes happen.  I accidentally sent a ‘sex text’ to my mum once….  ….  ….  awkward much???!!!

Post # 10
926 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

SUPER lucky.  Just act like nothing happened unless she brings it up.  From the sound of their relationship, I doubt she’ll say something to him, and maybe she’s even had the same thoughts and is chuckling/validated because she’s not the only one that noticed. 

Post # 11
1676 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@bells219:  I agree. 

You are sooo lucky! I wouldn’t bring it up. It sounds like she agrees/forgave you, and I don’t know what you could accomplish by bringing it back up. 

Post # 12
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@greenviolets:  agreed. Seems like she agrees with you! And hey, this could be the start a nice a friendship, especially if she ends up leaving him

Post # 13
3799 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

@bakerella:  “It sounds like she likely agreed with what you wrote…” <this 100%.

I wouldn’t stress too much, but neither would I bring it up unless she does. 🙂

Post # 14
21 posts
  • Wedding: August 2012

Haha I laugh only cause this is totally something that would happen to

Me.. Im a nanny too, if it were me, I would totally just pretend it never happened. And like everyone else said it kind of sounds like she agreed with you. So I wouldn’t worry too much! Good luck though!! 

Post # 15
362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

At least the text was in reference to her husband (that it sounds like she shares the same opinion of) and not her!  I wouldn’t bring it up unless she does.  Super awkward though… I would have freaked out too!

Post # 16
2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I was going to say, “Your ass is fired…” but it seems like she doesn’t disagree with you! I wouldn’t bring it up since you already apologized. I think it would just make it 10X more awkward!

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