Sent the ring to be Appraised…S.O upset!

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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6812 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

@DuckyPDuckerson:  I’m sorry, I don’t see in your story where your FI is upset??? He just said that he will upgrade it when he has more money?

Post # 4
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920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Do you mean his remark made him seem upset as you left the store??

 

He is probably just really disappointdd about the poor resize and damage to the ring. Or maybe he is upset that some of the specs are different than he wanted? Or maybe he wanted it to be appraised at a higher value. 

Post # 5
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2155 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

He’s just upset that he spent money on something and it got damaged. It’s a reasonable reaction, I think. That is REALLY a bummer that your ring got damaged during the resizing. If you don’t want to upgrade maybe contact Tacori to see if they can repair it? Good luck!

 

Post # 6
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6407 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m not sure I understand the story correctly, but are you saying that your FI is upset about the poor resizing job?

This makes total sense to me. He wants the ring to be “just right” for you. He doesn’t like that it has a flaw like that. It’s a sweet thought, it comes from a good place.

My FI kept sending the ring back to the jeweler because of this or that they couldn’t get right (they were making his design and had promised to make it exactly so, but the first few efforts apparently missed the mark in a variety of ways). Actually I found it extremey flattering. He would scrutinze that ring with the attention most people might reserve for defusing a bomb. He really wanted to it be “just right” for me. He never normally acts that way about other objects so…I dunno, it was super-sweet 🙂 I really felt special to him when I saw that he really cared about that.

Post # 8
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10219 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Sorry to hear how the Setting got messed up in sizing.  I think I’d be prone to take it to a better Jewellery Store and see what they might be able to do to fix it.

And ya, I can understand why your Man would be ticked about that stuff.  Not cool

On the other hand, sounds like you got a good deal.

Hope this helps,

 

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