Separated parents…seated together??

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
128 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I would talk to them about it. Tell them that you want to make sure they enjoy themselves at the wedding and want to know if they are comfortable being seated together.

Post # 4
2630 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@dms0622:  If you’re comfortable with having that talk with your FMIL, that would be the best way to go. It takes the guess work out of it, and by going with the seating arrangement on which they agree, you wouldn’t offend either one. Good luck!

Post # 5
7052 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@dms0622:  Someone needs to talk to them both. If you’re only close enough to talk to FMIL,  your fiance needs to talk to FFIL. He says it upsets him… well I can guarantee it’s a lot more upsetting for them. (And I speak from experience, my parents separated just after I married). He needs to man up and talk to them.

Post # 6
42157 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would ask each of them what they would prefer.

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