- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
A long story summerized.
A brief about my mom: At 5 she got typhoid and mentally hasnt been stable since so ive been dealing with her behaivor my hole life. Over the years she has progressivly gotten worse.
Im 30 and will be having my 1st wedding in august. I have one sibling, a sister, who is 32 and never married. my mom has recently gone litterally crazy and my hole family has dis-owened her it has gotten so bad. 🙁 My sister and were talking about my wedding that is coming up and we thought about something… We are worried that my mom (who is angry at my entire family) will show up at the wedding with a gun and shoot all of us. Think about it. she will have all of the people she hates all at the same place at the same time. 🙁 im thinking about hiring a police officer or something but im so fustrated about this. Its not a for sure thing that she would do this but when the thought of that pops up in my mind then my sister days later brings it up, kind of makes me think that it is possible.
I was thinking of sending just my mom a letter in the mail ( since no one is talking to her right now) that says the wedding date has changed. I dont know if she would believe it. The sad thing is that id like to have her there but am afraid of the things that could happen. I mean, this is suppose to be the happiest day of my life right? Part of me still wants her there so im conflicted.. sorry for rambling. 1st Pic is of my mother 7 years ago when she wasnt so mentally unstable; 2nd pic is 1 1/2 years ago…. any help