Serious wedding jitters please read!!!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@mrsbee21:  honestly it sounds like your ex was just trying to mess with your head. Which is really immature.

stop dwelling on it. If he thought he was “the one” for you he would have tried to get you to try again but instead said that he’s proposing to his gf….

bottom line it was a jab at you. 

Post # 4
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11002 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@mrsbee21:  There are many factors at play here. I would like a bit more information before I comment further.

First of all, can you tell us how long you and your ex dated and why the relationship ended, and by whose choice? 

Based on your answer to this question, I also would like to know if anything materially has changed regarding the issue or issues that resulted in the break-up.

How much time passed between the end of that relationship and when you began your relationship with the man to whom you are now engaged?

Finally, is this the first contact that you’ve had with your ex since you’ve been in the relationshp with your fiance?

Post # 6
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1526 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@mrsbee21:  whenever someone is about to get married or right after they get married they think if they made the right decision.  I think your ex wants you to still be in love with him.  Even if you did break off your engagement do you think your ex would not propose to his GF and go back to you?  Your ex said he thought it would never work out.  Sounds like hes playing games with you. 

Post # 7
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11002 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@mrsbee21:  OK. Thank you for sharing those details.

Since you cannot control anything  about your ex boyfriend at present or in the future, we must set all of that aside right now as I ask you the following very important questions:

Do you have a committed and romantic love for your fiance, and do want to — and are you ready to — spend the rest of your life with him — forsaking ALL OTHERS, as long as you both shall live?

Regardless of what happens with your ex-boyfriend, if you cannot say “yes” to those questions, you should not marry your fiance.

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