- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
The wedding plans have kinda dwindled, I know that I should be enjoying the time before it gets crazy again. But its people now that getting me all stressed not actual wedding planning. I just put the deposit for the make up and hair just to hold the date, I told everybody about 3 weeks ago that I found someone I liked. Apprently that isnt enough time my one Bridesmaid or Best Man flipped out when she said she found a salon she liked, and when I said I had already put the deposit down. It was like World War 3, I knew I was going to have issues from that start with her but I’m naive and hoped she would change for my wedding.
Now a few days ago my Maid/Matron of Honor called me to tell me that my Future Mother-In-Law told her she wasn’t planning a bridal shower for her side anymore that it was the MOH’s job. Now my Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t going to plan 2 she and my mom are planning the one for my side of the family, and my Future Mother-In-Law was suppose to plan the one for her’s, well now that’s not going to happen. Now my Maid/Matron of Honor called her today to see how many people she wanted there and she said 6! Are you kidding me I would like my FI’s cousins and aunts there not your friends! This is my bridal shower not yours, I’m just so fustrated right now. I have told my Maid/Matron of Honor not to worry that I will throw a little party for his side because I am not going to just have one with all of my family, and I don’t want 60 people at one party.
Is it wierd to throw your own “bridal shower” I just want to make his side feel a part of this whole thing to. I could care less about the presents I just love getting the whole family together. And is it to much to ask people to stick to their word, my Future Mother-In-Law did tell me she would throw one for me for their side I have no clue what changed!
Ugh I’m just having a horrible week! There is so much more I just can’t type that much right now and I don’t want to bore everybody with my problems.