Seriously..can my day get any worse?!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Daizy914:  oh no- what a horrible day:( Sorry you have such a rude coworker- I can’t believe anyone would say that. I hope DH and you makeup by the time you get home from work:) *hugs*

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

what a prize bitch!

 

you have so much more restraint than me, I probably would have said ‘Don’t worry about me, we need to find you a surgeon to work on this!’ And pointed at her face.

 

….some people might call me agressive… haha

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Unless your a stripper, she had NO right to saw that to you! You should of pointed at her face and said “what’s that??! You need to work on that!”

 

ignore rude people!!! They only do that to make themselves feel better!!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

Bullying you like that can constitute harrassment in the work place, and HR people usually take that very seriously.  You may want to consider filing a complaint.

Post # 9
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m sure your belly is fine. Her personality it NOT!

What a JERK!

Post # 10
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10999 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@Daizy914:  I don’t know why I continue to be shocked and horrified by some of the completely inappropriate, out of line, and utterly rude things people will say to others, but, somehow I am.

I am so sorry that your co-worker would even THINK of making that comment to you.  It may not seem like this to you right now, but her rudeness says FAR more about her than it does about any physical flaws which you may or may not possess.

I wish I could give you a big hug!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

What the freak. Unless your job is a being a model she shouldn’t be commenting on your stomach. If someone at work said that to me I would freak out.

 

Post # 13
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7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Daizy914:  I am pretty sure that belly comment is harrassment, and I would report it.

Post # 14
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Newbee

Why on earth did you let her have it?Bullying can only go away if you stand up and talk.To her or someone superior in your workplace

Post # 15
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Helper bee

What a shame that your coworker felt it was appropriate to say something like that to you. Armchair psychologist here – she probably still feels insecure about her body and is insulting you to feel better about herself…  sorry that she took it out on you!

I hope your day gets better, sending good thoughts your way!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Even if you were huuuuuge, what right is it of hers to say those things?

If someone is bigger by choice and happy, a comment like that will just create a hostile environment. If someone is bigger and unhappy, it will make them feel worse – and probably result in comfort eating and further gain. In the end, it just results in the speaker looking like a fool.

A guy at work, when I was a bit younger, used to say things to me about my looks, and I managed to ignore it, until one day I just burst into tears, and there was nearly a fist fight when my friends realised what he had been saying. Shortly after, he left work, and has since reapplied for his job – my coworkers gave such negative opinions of his conduct that our new manager was disgusted and didn’t even return his call. 

 

Bullies always get their just desserts. 

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