(Closed) SERIOUSLY!!…What do you expect to get

posted 5 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Are you or FI having a stripper for your party?
    Of course we BOTH are! : (11 votes)
    7 %
    I am allowing FI alone : (20 votes)
    13 %
    ONLY ME : (2 votes)
    1 %
    None of us ! : (118 votes)
    78 %
  • Post # 3
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    1417 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @Mz Izzie:  LOL. I think this thread is going to be very interesting!

      I’m not for or against it. I know SO and I are going to something low key. No strippers or anything like that it’s just not us.

    Post # 5
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    2488 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    my cousin is a stripper and keeps telling FI she’ll hook him up and complaining that we are not going clubbing for the b-paty. 1st off  she is underaged  and so is my entire bridal party! Even one of them is a minor so its not an option. 2nd. I don’t drink and neither does my MOH. 3rd. I don’t want to do that. I want to stay home and watch harry potter and magic mike while eating yummy food. thats whats fun to me! its my b-party so she needs to quit crying about it.

    Fi is having a video game party for his and completly content. I know he kinda wants a stripper but to me that is so wrong and I hate it.

    Post # 6
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    2869 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    FI actually wants me to go see male strippers lol but I have no desire to.  He will probably go to some type of strip club.  I don’t really get it, but it doesn’t really bother me

    I will most likely go wine tasting or similar with my MOH and thats about it

    Post # 7
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    3092 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We’re staying at our inn the night before the rehearsal dinner.  The gals will have a spa day and the guys will go hiking.  We’ll all meetup later for dinner and drinks.

    No strippers.

     

    I am against strippers and the sexual exploitation of men and women.  I work with homeless youth who are far too often sexually exploited and trafficked in this manner.  These young people grow up and become adults who are exploited and trafficked.  It’s not a good thing to support!

    Post # 8
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    10454 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Hell to the no, that’s disrespectful, disgusting and just plain wrong. 

    Post # 9
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    808 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I think I would rather have my ladies at a day spa and a night of dancing after…

    My girl friends took me to a strip party for my birthday last year..I lasted one dance and called my SO to come and get me. I wanted to hit the stripper for rubbing up all over me LOL Not interested at all (They do it to get their jollies off I swear)

    Post # 10
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    808 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    And my SO has said he wouldn’t get a stripper because he doesn’t see the point 🙂

    Post # 12
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    1360 posts
    Bumble bee

    FI doesn’t want to see strippers, and I have zero desire to see any either.

    So neither of us. In fact, I plan on having a party with my friends and mom (playing board games, eating popcorn, etc) and then having FI and the guys come over and join later in the evening after they’ve had a few beers.

    Post # 13
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    915 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I think we’re too old for strippers and wild parties, personally. I suspect we both end up doing something low-key.

    Post # 14
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    100 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    FI will have strippers, and crazy things will happen. I’m not worried, at all. I told him “do not have sex with another woman, and come home with all your teeth.” they are going to New Orleans, and his friends party hard. The way I see it, he is an adult, and this wedding is something to celebrate- I don’t mind if he has fun and goes crazy. In fact, I encourage it. We are going to spend of our lives together, so, in the grand scheme, His bachelor weekend is insignificant. 

    Post # 15
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    786 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    My FI will be going to a strip club for a part of his and it doesn’t bother me at all, it’s something he’s done in the past.  I know that he’s coming home to me at night and that’s what’s important.  I definitely won’t be having a male stripper, not because I think it’s wrong, but because male strippers weird me out, definitely a little too out there for me.

    Post # 16
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    100 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Also, he is 27 years old- I don’t “let him” do anything. I don’t control his actions. He is an adult and can make his own choices, just as I make my own. We don’t “ask” permission, either. 

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