Sex during period… how do you do it?!

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you have sex during your period?
    Yes, all the time : (58 votes)
    19 %
    Yes, but only when it's a light flow : (60 votes)
    20 %
    Sometimes, when I'm really horny : (49 votes)
    16 %
    Hell no! : (132 votes)
    44 %
  • Post # 2
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    423 posts
    Helper bee

    We make sure we have a towel so we don’t mess up any bedding or furniture.

    Post # 3
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    3699 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    shazzshazshz:  In general, I prefer not to, just because of the mess and feeling gross. But, if the occasion arises, the shower is always a good way to go, or laying down the ever faithful sex towel. 

    Post # 4
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    5246 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2050

    Q: How do you do it?

    A: In the tub.

    Post # 5
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    1262 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2015 - Mount Hermon

    shazzshazshz:  only during the end, when it’s light. FI doesn’t mind at all, in fact I was more opposed to it than him at first. He tells me that he’d be fine with sex during a heavy flow, but I’m not there yet.

    We put a towel down and have sex like normal. And, actually, it makes my period a day to a day and half shorter. For me, I only feel cramps and bloated for the first day or two, so by the time the flow it’s light,  I feel fine anyway.

    Post # 6
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    337 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2000

    I don’t.

    Post # 7
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    3195 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I would recommend having sex during your period in the shower. 

    My husband and I tried period sex a couple of times.

    We were both grossed out by the mess and the smell, so now we just wait until I’m not bleeding anymore.

    Post # 8
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    2250 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Shower or on a towel.

    Post # 9
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    904 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 1975

    shazzshazshz:  Hands down the shower. It’s just the easiest cleanup.

    Post # 10
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    166 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    Blah. It grosses me out. 

    Periods are just kind of gross. I feel gross. Definitely not sexy. 

    And when you pass the little chunkies. Vomit. I can’t imagine that could ever be a turn on lol.

    Post # 11
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    1131 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I’ve been with guys who say they don’t mind sex on a period, but I have just never, ever wanted to try it. It has happened once or twice by accident, and just, ugh. It’s really the smell that gets me more than anything. Plus, it’s just hard for me to feel sexy when that is going on! I’ve always envied the people who have no problem just going for it, because it seems like a much more liberated and carefree way to do it! But for me, sex on my period is kind of like pooping while someone is watching – it just feels so wrong, I can’t do it.

    Post # 12
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    935 posts
    Busy bee

    shazzshazshz:  we also use a towel on the bed, my SO isnt bothered by it at all. I was the one who was more so apprehensive because I naturally felt ugly and yucky and was like this is completely disgusting when he brought it up.  the first time was like our anniversary and I really wanted to be with him and he was beggin (lmao) so i caved and we did it. I was more nervous about his reactions than anything, but once we got past the initial “start” everything was fine. being with him on my period actually made me feel alot less crappy, and in a weird way, beautiful, his desire to be with me helped ease my feeling of being ugly. ABOUT TO BE TMI. we dont jack rabbit or anything with a fast motion while AF is visiting because of the bloating etc, its very sensual and slow and more caressing. We dont do it every single time AF is here, but we dont let that stop us either. 

    ive never tried it in the shower while on but that sounds like a good idea. idk how i feel about period leaking down my legs tho lol. but nonetheless, i may try that lol. 

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    shazzshazshz:  Never, ever on a heavy day, but on a day with a light flow and we are really in the mood, I have no problem throwing a towel on the bed and then hopping in the shower afterwards. It may get messy, but honestly it has only been really gross once. And we just laughed it off.

    Post # 14
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    3552 posts
    Sugar bee

    shazzshazshz:  Shower, if it happens, but my husband is not into it. and honestly, I feel disgusting on my period so I usually don’t want to have sex then.

    Post # 15
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    2726 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    shazzshazshz:  Same here. It has nothing to do with the blood, I feel awful, bloated, gassy, need to pee all the time. Just not sexy

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