Sex in public places?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Ahaha I’ve never SEEN or WITNESSED it personally. BUT!!!

I have TWO sets of friends that both had sex… at the park… on the swings!!!!!!!!!

I’ve also heard of people having sex on the beach (a lot) and that being something the girl SERIOUSLY REGRETTED SO BAD (for a long time afterwards) because of the sand…. you know… 

Post # 4
3394 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Kacey23:  I saw somebody giving a BJ in a movie theater once. I was embarrassed for them. Like hello, I know the theater is almost empty, but we were sitting one row away.

My FI and I have sex in “public”. In the car sometimes. If we walk home from the local bar, we stop on the short cut and do it there. It mostly hidden from view, but we aren’t the only people who know about that short cut. We’ve not been caught so far and it really is thrilling.

Post # 5
490 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve given blowjobs in the backseats of parked cars and in wooded areas in parks.  Parked cars were in deserted parking lots, and it was later at night in the parks.

Post # 6
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have! In a car (not a big deal), and in the ocean in St Lucia!

Luckily, it was RIGHT after a major rainstorm (Sorry, a “whole lot of of liquid sunshine”), so we were the only ones using the beach!

Post # 7
10219 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Sex in public venues tends to be a young person’s game… in so much as one:

(a) doesn’t care so much about being seen / caught (no reputation to up hold)

(b) Lol, and one can take off a lot quicker if need be when interrupted / caught.

I’ve had my share of “risque” encounters in my lifetime… not something I do much now (and “the flair” of it all is a lot less spectacular / flashy)

But I have a GF who lives on a Golf Course, and her and her Hubby (both in their 50s) were “seen” by a Neighbour when they went out one night to “Play with her Hubby’s Putter on the Fairway”… she & him were only slightly embarrassed (they knew the risks of getting caught).  But the Neighbour hasn’t stopped ribbing them about it… and that is irritating to her.  Neighbour soooo needs to get a new hobby… lol, and I am sure his wife would agree… rather than spying on his Neighbours he could be going “a round” with the Mrs as she “Polishes his balls on the Back 9”


Post # 9
3097 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

With an ex on the park, & movie theater comes to mind… With dh only in the car. i just don’t wanna risk it :p

Post # 10
10219 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

To @Kacey23:  Ya the movies “sugar coat sex” all the time…

All the places you see on film have issues… Beach (sand) – Barn / Hay Mow (chaf) – Car (can we say KINKY, and I mean in the “holy sh!t I just got the worst cramp / charly horse in my leg !!” kind of way)

If you can find a spot where you won’t get discovered (away from civilization) … I say PICNIC with great food, bottle of wine, and a SOFT Blanket or two.  (And hopefully it isn’t BUG Season… Blackflies, Mosquitos, Horseflies, even Ants can ruin the mood)


Post # 11
5207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@Kacey23:  Not since I was 17 but yes, I have engaged in public sex. I won’t say where because I really don’t feel like getting slut shamed by the hive.

Post # 12
619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Hmm, that’s a big disabled toilet on this deserted beach… 😉

Post # 13
225 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

One of my fondest memories is of being horny as hell at FI’s parents house and having to find a place to do the deed. We ended up on his old high school’s baseball field haha. Another fond memory is when it was like 2 am and we decided to walk the dog for some reason and ended up amongst some trees…yep.

Post # 14
114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I haven’t…BUT I worked at an amusement park as a lifeguard and can’t begin to tell you how many people thought it was cool to have sex in the lake by the most popular water slide.

Post # 15
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

A lot of places…but also when we were 17-20. We haven’t done most of these in years

Several Beaches

Several Parks

K-Mart dressing room (because we’re classy like that)


University classrooms


Im sure a few other places, but I can’t think of any right now


Post # 16
3344 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

I have definitely witnessed stuff going down in public parks.  But no, I have not engaged in sex in public myself.  Honestly, sex is messy.  I need to be able to clean up afterwards.  I imagine sex in public is uncomfortable, gross, dirty, unhygienic, and not sexy at all.

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