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Question for fellow bees!
Will your SO have sex with you on your period? Do you mind having sex on your period?
My husband has never had any issue whatsoever with having sex while on my period. he doesnt mind at all. and hell if he doesnt care , then i dont ! ;)
But i have talked to a lot of my friends and their BF's REFUSE to have sex with them when they are on their periods....
I would never....I hate being on my period and the last thing I wanna do when I'm on it is have sex. The thought of it actually disgusts me.
My FI won't. He passes out when he see's or even discusses blood so sex on my period is a no-go unless I want to end up taking him to ER...good thing I'm an RN!!
FH has said it doesn't bother him at all, but it's all I can think about (mess, etc. - yuck) and so I don't enjoy it, so we abstain.
We only do it on the last 3 or 4 days. Since I went off BC, it's HEAVY so we have to cut out those first days. It's no problem since by the last few days, it's not messy.
On BC though, we did it the whole time.LMAO
My FI doesn't mind at all...
When I say I have cramps, He says He has the perfect remedy for it LOL....
....Yes, it can be messy but We end up in the shower together 
Cam doesn't mind ... and that's great because it helps my cramps and it happens to be the time I want it the most!!
We usually don't on the first few days of the period because it's heavy, heavy, heavy!
This isn't a problem for us. I usually don't do it on the first or second day of my period because it's too heavy, but after that, it doesn't bother us at all.
He wouldn't even consider doing it. But I have friends whose boyfriends have no problem with it.
I dont mind it but he gets pretty weirded out by it so i say no... sigh
We do it, and neither of us have a problem with it. Trusty dark towel comes in handy.
Depends on the flow. He's not a fan so we go with a shower frolick. Usually I don't feel like it but sometimes my period makes my hormones go crazy! It's not really an issue...i only have a few a year (thank goodness!)
usually no, but if it's light on the last day maybe... freaks me out, more than him ;)
My period tends to hang around for like 11 days, so it's pretty unrealistic to think we're not going to have sex 2 weeks out of the month. The only days I personally don't want to do anything are the second and third, which are my heaviest. The other days we'll do it in the shower or with a towel underneath.
ick :) But I've always wondered this.. I've had boyfriends that didn't mind and my husband is indifferernt so we don't do it.
We're waiting for marriage, but in talking about it, J has had the attitude of "why not?" - including oral, which is a little weird to me. I'm all for trying it though :) I'm usually craaazy horny just before and through my period.
Pfft, that won't stop us. We can't keep our hands off each other. Although, we tend to stick to areas that won't ruin my good sheets, haha.
I'm not into it - mainly because my periods are really heavy and I tend to physically suffer through them. We stick to curling up together for those 4 days a month - cuddles make the cramps more bearable!
I would be okay with it towards the end of my period when there is really not any flow--but my fiance puts like a 2-day buffer on each side of my period when he STILL refuses to have S-E-X, just to "make sure." He's even started keeping track of my period on his own b/c he swears I'm always trying to "trick him". LOL. I'm pretty sure that once we are living together after the wedding, I will be able to wear him down though!
Only on the last couple of days, and it tends to affect me more than him since I begin to get self-conscious if it's heavier than predicted. So it's not always the best, but it works.
We're both fine with it.... let's be honest, any time I say yes, he's on board!
FI has no issue with it, and most of the time I don't. If we feel like it, we do, if not, then that's ok too. It def does help my cramps.
We've done it lots of times! I mean, if it's not a "bad" time during my period, we will. My FI doesn't mind at all!
I wouldn't mind so much but FI is TOTALLY against it. My periods are pretty short anyway though so it's not that big of a deal.
Related to above comment, FI used to have a friend who LOVED giving oral when his GF (now wife!) was on her period. Yuck.
That's the last thing I want! Give me ice cream and a chick flick, his ass can wait!
We always have sex when i'm on my period! He doesn't care, I don't care, and we have a hard time waiting any period of time!!!
I used to with exes but I was never really into doing it. I always just feel gross and it's messy and just BLECH. My FI isn't into doing it during that time and that is more than fine with me!
I'm not into it but usually relent near the end when it isn't so heavy. Oral, however, is off limits until it's over- yuck!
My husband doesnt mind giving oral at that time either but for me thats just going to far. im uncomfortable with oral already then on my PERIOD?! Nooooo thank you!
But also like the other ladies stated, sex really helps alleviate cramps ;)
We usually do it during my period - I don't see what the big deal is. I wouldn't put up with a guy refusing to do it if I wanted to - no sex 1 out of every 4 weeks is too much!!!
Definitely. Why let a little blood stop us? That's what dark towels and condoms are for! Its a great cure for bad cramps and headaches. The only thing I won't let him do (not that he's ever offered during my period) is oral. Yuck. *shudders*
My bf doesn't mind, so neither do I! Luckily, my period is typically pretty light....so it really hasnt been an issue at all. I usually don't like to do it on the first day, just in case, but other than that, I'm good to go!! haha
Nope. Its the last thing on my mind, because I usually feel like hell.
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