Post # 1
Does anyone have this problem? Do you ever get the feeling your HB is having sex with someone else and not you while making knooky with you. I have got this feeling since me and this cougar that he works with have the exact hair colour and thickness and length. They Flirt all the time, and he asks me to wear certain outfits. Like business wear in bed. It was so bad i died my hair dark brown and chopped it to my jaw line. Cause i would stop having sex with no explaination. He would just get all pissy, and i didnt like the way i felt.
Post # 3
um? Marriage counseling?
EDIT: I suggest counseling b/c of your previous posts.
Post # 4
I don’t think it’s unusual for anyone to occasionally think about someone else in bed. But just because you look like her, that doesn’t mean he imagines he is having sex with her. I think your problem here is that he flirts with this woman, you should talk to him and tell him that you are uncomfortable with his interactions with her.
Post # 5
I had a meeting set up for marriage coucelling and he was willing to go until the day came. He took off and said it was for work. I tried and continue to try and he seems to not want to.
Post # 6
I think people sometimes imagine others in bed…I dont think its abnormal. but when it comes down to changing your appearance to mimic the imaginary person, that might be taking it a little too far.
Post # 7
Its wierd cause i have never thought of someone else while doin it. I guess cause i am not attracted to other guys when i am in a commited relationship. But as for the fantacy thats all it will ever be. I just dont want him to think i will be anyone else but myself.