(Closed) “Sexual” wedding day gift?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I don’t think that is inappropriate at all – and since he has been asking about using some intimate items such as toys before, I think he will be excited about it!  It will be a nice way to enhance your wedding night…and many nights afterwards!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That sounds fun 🙂 Maybe you could lock him up with some handcuffs, since you are the ball and chain and all!

Seriously, FI and I love sex toys and role play! Have you ever talked to him about this? I wouldn’t introduce sex toys for the first time on the wedding night, but if he is open to the idea or you two have used them before, why not?

I love Doc Johnson’s Lucid Dreams line. They are fun and not so phallic looking!

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

A private gift from you to him? absolutely ok. But don’t be surprised if you are both way too tired for any sexual activity on your wedding night, much less introducing new toys.

Post # 7
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Helper bee

I think its a great idea.  You could always look for one of those kama sutra sets that includes oils and lotions for massages and maybe a long feather plume or somethine like that.  There are lots of good “tamer” choices out there that might help you not feel embarrassed.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@MrsJKH2be: I totally feel that way as well!  I am way less adventurous with my husband than some of the other guys I’ve been with.  I guess because I’ve known in the past that it was temporary.

Also, my hubby and I have been officially married for a while now (though no one knows, it’s sort of great!) and we are having an october wedding as well.  Isn’t it liberating to know the most important part of the day is already taken care of? It’s so liberating.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Totally acceptable!  🙂 Go for it, I’m sure he’ll love the surprise!

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Go for it!  But I agree with @julies1949 that you might be too tired to try them out that night (we collapsed)!

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