Post # 1
Ok so just curious…how many times a week do you and your SO have sex? Has it always been the same? Does someone usually want it more than the other?
For us its usually just twice a week, Of course when we first started it was anytime we could get it! Sometimes I feel like I want it more than him but maybe thats just because Im a little more outspoken and not as shy about that stuff lol My poor fiance gets red when he curses haha!
Post # 3
Right now because of BC, my husband wants it more than I do. We do it only about 2x a week right now because of health issues, time issues, etc.
Post # 4
You should add a poll to this thread!
We used to have sex EVERY day, no joke! Now, with his stressful job and hours it is usual only twice a week…on “good” weeks three. I sometimes wish it was more but think that after our schedules get more normal that it will become more frequent again but honestly? A lot of the time I like just cuddling and watching tv some nights or reading together for a few minutes in bed.
Post # 5
Yeah I agree! We are just so busy all the time and sometimes it turns into a hassle lol! But when we get to it its always really good so I guess Ill take the quality over quantity…
Post # 6
I agree!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂 and we always are so cuddly after (when other times I just wanna sprawl!) it is really nice and brings us super close for that night!
Post # 7
I checked “Not enough” because we’re long distance, haha.
I miss him.
Post # 8
We also used to have sex everytime we saw each other/several times a day. Now that we have opposite work schedules and other obligations it makes it hard for us to spend time together so I hit not enough.
Post # 9
I just have to say, I love the title of this post since it’s a phrase you’ll hear often around our house, lol!!
And, don’t you think there could be an option in between Couple times a week & Not enough?
Post # 10
wow im so shocked at these kinds of threads when I take the poll. We have it everyday if not every other and we always wonder how some couples can only do it a few times a week, we would go nuts! We’ve been together for 3 years and have lived together for 2 and we were thinking of trying not to do the kinky the week of the wedding but I dont think that can happen, its such a great stress reliever for us and its exactly what we both say afterwards.. 🙂
OH and he works 12 hour days and we have a 15 mnth old daughter and I work 10 hours on the weekends but there is no excuse for us when it comes to that
Post # 11
definitely NOT ENOUGH!
we’re averaging once a week right now :(… between work, his mba, my law school prep, wedding planning, and our new 5 day workout regiment we’re both tired… and on alternating nights! when he’s not tired, i am, when i’m tired, he’s not!…
**SIGH** oh sometimes i miss the days when it’d be multiple times a day! 😛
Post # 12
I put down not enough…because there’s about a 1200 mile commute between us right now! LOL Hopefully my answer will change when the hubs is finally living with me!
Post # 13
I definitely want it more than him! We can have sex any where from every day to once a week. Depends on how lucky I am lol! I think we had more when we first were married!
lol Some times I threaten to sneak him black market viagra!
Post # 14
I check not enough because he’s deployed…before he left it was as often as we could do it…and you better believe when he gets back I’m gonna jump him on the freakin’ pier! LOL But to answer the question…at least once daily =)
Post # 15
We’re not married, and he lives at home, so not as often as we’d like. I picked a couple of times a week b/c when we are together, it’s a couple of times a day 🙂
I just averaged it out!
Post # 16
Not enough!! But we’re getting there! Between work schedules, school schedules and workout schedules, it’s tough finding the time!!