- 5 years ago
When I asked my best friend of 8 years to be my Maid of Honor she was so excited and of course said yes. I just dont know what happened! I made an appointment to pick out bridesmaid dresses on a saturday at one about an hour and a half away from our home town. I let everyone know in advance and set reservations for lunch beforehand. I called my MOH at 9 that morning, she said she was going to miss dinner but she’d be there to try on dresses at one. Ok, fine. So I called her when arriving to the bridal shop, she hadn’t even LEFT our hometown yet. I (obviously disgusted) told her it was fine and hung up. She didn’t show up until we were all walking out the door. Mind you this is the first time I’ve seen her in about a month, shes lost 30-40 lbs since I last saw her and has scabs on her arms. Plus her reason for being late is that her mouth hurt so bad, she literally had holes on her gums. I think everyone can peice together my suspisions.
Basically since then she avoids my phone calls or texts, or sometimes will make plans with me, then not answer my calls. AND last Sunday my MOH was throwing a baby shower for our mutual friend, she was responsible for bringing food, basically coordinating the entire thing since she was HOSTING! She showed up half hour late.. My MOH never used to be like this, she was always the reliable and responsible one of our group. I’m pretty sure she even quit her job.
Obviously I’m worried about her, I’ve tried to get together and talk with her. But I’m worried about my wedding, too. It’s in June and she hasn’t asked to help with anything, hasn’t mentioned anything about a bachelorette party, hell I don’t even know if she still plans on showing up to the wedding. It’s just very disapointing that my best friend has become a stranger to me in the time that I thought we’d be the closest. I’m debating whether or not to ask FI’s sister to be matron of honor, atleast she’d get shit done… *Sigh* Anyways thanks for listening 🙂 Any advice or suggestions are SO welcome!