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    Busy bee
    metalbride    June 30, 2012  

    My coworker (new to the company) recently got married. They had a civil ceremony with their parents, then a DW and had an at home reception planned for Saturday. Yup, I think she's crazy!

    Immediately after the civil ceremony, she started having regrets. I don't know her well enough to know too many details, but she indicated that her husband's expectations of her as a wife changed drastically from that of a GF/FI.

    I was invited to, but not attending the reception on Saturday. Just this morning, she didn't show up for work. When I questioned another coworker, he indicated that it was because she had called off her reception and was "taking time apart" from her husband, and needed some personal time to deal with it. Fair enough, I would do the same.

    Anyhow, I doubt she'll be back to work tomorrow, but when she does return, what can I do to make her feel better? I'm sure it's going to be super awkward for her to come into the office.

     

     

     

     
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    mixtapehearts        Twins due 7/2013

    Maybe some flowers or a tin of candies/cookies? Just a little something to show support and concern and let her know you aren't judging her would be super sweet of you. 

     
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    lawbride88    May 26, 2013   Central California

    I'd just not talk about it unless she brings it up. You don't want her also thinking that people are gossiping about her at work--more on her plate. If you're close to her she'll bring it up. Just be open to giving non-judgmental support. Maybe invite her to coffee--just in case she WANTS to talk but not at work.

     

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