she has GOT to be kidding me

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3813 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

Wow, they all sound horrible and yeah, who invites their whole family to someone else’s wedding!?  That’s like at LEAST an additional 4 people that (I’m guessing) you barely know.

Post # 4
1988 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Obviously some people have never heard of a little thing called manners! 

Post # 5
2302 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

holy smokes, she is out to lunch! kudos to your fi for taking care of it – it’s nice to see after all the posts on here where stuff like this happens and the fi is nowhere to be found! at least you’re both on the same page 🙂

Post # 6
11668 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Interesting. I don’t see what her having a big wedding had anything to do with, but it’s never polite to invite others to someone else’s event.


Post # 7
4413 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@vorpalette:  Ha! What a lunatic!! good on you for having your FI deal with it. DH and I do that to each other all the time — “Please deal with this, because if I do, it’s going to be ugly.” It’s a good habit to get into, haha. Sometimes we even write each other’s emails so that it still ‘comes’ from the ‘right’ person but isn’t nearly as rough as it would be if the pissed-off one wrote it Tongue Out

Post # 8
2571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@vorpalette:  Seriously, wtf is up with these people????  I honestly did not think people like this existed until I started reading these threads.  Honestly.  Crazy town!

Post # 9
928 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ugh. My only advice: scream into a pillow, grab a glass of wine, and block her on FB! Sounds like a nightmare, you’re def doing the right thing by not expecting anything out of the best man, I remember one of your other posts about that shitstorm. Everything will work out and you’ll have an amazing wedding, just keep ignoring these fools : )

Post # 10
2365 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Sometimes, you meet a person’s parents and you’re pleasantly surprised that despite their upbringing, they managed to become a fantastic person and are a pleasure to be around.

The rest of the time, you look at the parents and go “Yep, no doubt where that shithead came from”.  This is one of those times.  Give your fiance a kiss and know that he’s awesome for taking the iniative to respond to the post, and that he did so in a civil manner!

Post # 11
323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@vorpalette:  Makes me glad that FI is an only child… with only one cousin… no BIL or SIL to worry about. (He’s not so lucky though… poor fella)

Post # 12
4513 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Ugh, who does that? I would never have the nerve to invite other people to someone’s wedding. And from her fake FB profile?! Seriously?

Post # 13
1096 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@vorpalette:  lol um……….. just no.  What a crazy person!  Why does she think her parents and sister should be invited to your wedding?!!?!

Post # 14
3735 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@vorpalette:  She obviously doesn’t know how much you dislike her. I give you kudos for being so darn nice!

Post # 15
1631 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

OMG this is horrifying. I remember the posts about $ and FBIL’s wedding.

Good tihngour FI knew he needed to handle business. Most bees have to reseort to saying something on your own…which…eesh – no thanks. (Not that I don’t think you have the intestinal fortitude to straighten her out 🙂

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