Post # 1
Maybe I’m behind on the times and this is yesterday’s news but I just discovered Shesahomewrecker.com. Ya know, the site where scorned women bash and post pictures of the women that destroyed their marriages/relationships.
Curious about what the bee’s take is on it?
Personally, I don’t think it’s a women’s job to protect your relationship afterall she has no obligation to you. If anything it’s the husband. But at the same time, I don’t feel bad for these women. They are all poor excuses of a human being.
Post # 3
@Sunsetmrs13: Hmm this is the first time I’ve heard of this. It seems like the site just makes all parties involved look bad.
Post # 4
I am against everything that’s related to thrashing somebody’s reputation or name over the Internet. What a coward way to face the problem. They need to grab some dignity ! Acting like that just give ex-husband extra reasons for dumping them, it just makes those women look bad.
Post # 5
- Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast
Two wrongs don’t make a right, and that site is just wrong.
Post # 6
…wtf? Pretty sure your husband was the one who “wrecked” your home Slut shaming is disgusting. So is that website.
Post # 7
@Sunsetmrs13: I think it’s so trashy for a woman whos husband cheated to post pictures of his mistress….I’m sorry but you should be mad at your husband…not the girl he slept with
Post # 8
Never heard of it before.
I can’t say as I’ve ever been involved with a man in a relationship, but I imagine that there are plenty of kind, gentle, intelligent women who have been. Maybe they didn’t know. Maybe they made a mistake. No one is perfect, and while that is CERTAINLY not an excuse for being involved with someone’s husband, I don’t believe that it makes you ‘less than human.’
And in addition to that, unless a woman sexually assaults your husband, he is just as responsible for the indiscretion, if not moreso, than she is. I’ll never understand why all these cheating men seem to more or less get a ‘pass’ while the woman ends up being called out as ‘dirty.’
If my husband were ever to cheat on me, I don’t think I’d be able to truly forgive him without making a strong effort to forgive the other woman as well- she is not any more responsible for what happened than he is.
All in all, I’m not really sure what the redeeming value of a site like this would be. Does it make anyone feel better? I highly, highly doubt it. It seems like garbage to me.
Post # 9
Amen. Sites like this only promote the “blame-the-woman” approach that society still seems to grasp. I always say with these things, “It takes two to tango…”
Post # 10
@rachelmichelle: While I believe in mistakes and that it does make us human. I do think a genuine case of someone trying to break a marriage for the thrill of it and a spouse doing the same does make you a poor excuse for a human. It’s sick. Might sound harsh. But hey, everyone’s entitled to their opinion right?
Post # 11
hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
i can understand that a woman feels like she needs some justice but is this really the best method?
personal happiness. that’s the best revenge.
Post # 12
- Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge
Why lower yourself to their level? I wouldn’t waste my energy on this website. Its childish and just validates why your ex would leave you for another woman. I’d just forgive both parties and wait for karma to do the rest. Because no matter how much trash talking I could do, karma will always do a much better job.
Post # 13
I think it depends. If she didn’t know he was married (and it totally happens), I wouldn’t want to stick her on this site!
But if she knew and was actively trying to get him to leave his family? Oh yeah.
Post # 14
Wow, this a jerry springer material, minus the cheating guy; and to be fair, shouldn’t the men be on here as well…takes two to tango, after all. Tacky.
Post # 15
@Sunsetmrs13: Im completely against this. While I know there are some women who definitely go after married men on purpose, I think that’s the exception. I would say it’s more common that the man is a liar and lies to both his wife and the other woman. I think it’s incredibly stupid for women who lose their husbands to another woman to completely bash the other woman. Have some class. the man is the one to blame fully. He was the one who was responsible for respecting his marriage at all times. Even if it was another woman that pursued the married man, going on the internet to bash that woman makes you just as trashy as the woman who was a homewrecker. In my opinion, being so negative won’t get you anywhere good. It’s best to focus on healing and moving forward, rather than bashing someone on the internet.
Plus, I don’t care how much a woman pursues DH, he should love me enough and respect our marriage enough to have the self control to say no and do everything in his power to make sure no boundaries are crossed. A man can’t be forced to do anything he doesn’t want to do. They aren’t mindless puppets.
Post # 16
Women who pursue a man even after hearing they are married is absolutely disgusting and selfish.
Oh and the guys shouldn’t be off the hook either especially those who lie to BOTH parties. Also dont forget women can do the cheating on their husband as well….and I’m sure the other man is’t pinpointed but the wife instead.
BUT with that sad I do not agree with sites like these. These women who have been cheated on need a different outlet than a website like this to release their emotions. I was reading some stories and they are absolutely heart wrenching. They need to talk to therapists and find their OWN identity so they can learn to build a happy healthy new life. I could see women who probably abruptly fill out info on this site just to express themselves.
Someone said to me that websites like these help others avoid these people. But I personally don’t see how….