- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
This may seem like a petty argument but i just need to let it all out.
I took my female ring bearer out of our marriage blessing as of today.
Well first off’s let me say that she is 13 years old. and I understand that 13 year old girls are very moody. BUT EVERY SINGLE DAY!?!? since we moved across the hall from my aunt in Nocember we’ve been dealing with her moodiness. I try to talk to her EVERYTIME i see that something is bothering her & she won’t respond.
Yesterday hubby & i along with a friend and my cousin went to target to do a registry for my friends apartment warming. hubby decided to do one for us(just a few little things, i didnt want to go all out because were already married) so the whole time cousin saying “oh thats ugly, why do you need that?” and so much more. We ignored her. just when we were leaving she calls her mom to picks her up from the store..Yesterday i said i had enough. Went home didn’t say anything.
fast forward to this morning: I notice my shoes are missing, she has them, she wore them without asking me. So i text her saying hey if you have my purple shoes can you bring them over, im going to the store…what does she do? she THREW them at my door? really come on now. (at this point i’ve had enough, I’ve never said anything to her)So i text her and said “you could have knocked on my door, not throw them” (i seriously heard the shoes hit the door. dh was in the bathroom and he heard them hit the door!!!!!!) she says “if i threw yo shoes i woulda threw them at your door but did i? um on”
ME: aright, im not dealing with your little attitudes. since your acting like this you dont need to be apart of my marriage blessing. i’m thinking (why have her negativity while the ceremony goes on. she seriously gets mad if shes standing too long, ppl looking at her, someone say’s hi to her” etc. like really girl? get it together)
then she accuses me of putting the word “attitude” in her mouth (how am i accusing? im deff. not sure) then says she does not care, it does not bother her etc.
at this point i’m done. i’ve held this “anger” in for 8 months, i can only put up with it for so long, so i let it all out today.
Im pretty sure some of you are thinking this is pathetic but i just had to let this anger out.. thanks for reading. lol.
my thing is, i dont want the drama, the negative stuff on this day. I posted a different rant the other day about my grama…she will not be attending either because she’s so negative..gosh i sound like a child…im just so angry…sorry.