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Good point Merricat...if you get so focused on the wedding, what is going to happen to the marriage? I didn't read the crying part, but that just doesn't sound healthy. Are you sure there isn't something deeper going on?
I tend to agree with Merricat, Suzanno, and many others that have tried to put this discussion in the right perspective.
I think it was very kind and generous of this cousin to move their wedding from before to after callalillies. Personally, I wouldn't ask for anything more than that, end of story.
yes there is something deeper. i am a psycho bitch out to ruin everyone's lives.
i kid.
Holy crap, no one told me I got a whole MONTH! I totally call do-overs. ;)
"what do i do? 
i am so sad. weddings are supposed to be happy.. not miserable."
You have some choices here: let it make you miserable or decide that you won't let it. In the end, it's not about you. Like people say frequently on here, your wedding day is much much more important to you than it is to anyone else. While it's nice that they changed the schedule once for you, they have to schedule a day that works for them.
What you *can* do about this is be gracious about the dates and concentrate on your own arrangements. I doubt that their wedding will have any affect on your wedding day except if you let it bother you.
It could totally be worse.. Take my situation, for example.
Fiance and I have been engaged for two years, with our wedding now two weeks away. TWO YEARS, mind you, plenty of time to tell our family and whatnot.
The second week in January of this year my cousin got engaged and picked the same damn day. The EXACT same day as we have been planning to have our wedding on for two freakin years! She knew what she was doing when she did it, but she put it on the same day anyway. When I asked why she put it on that day, she said, "It just worked best for all of my family." Keep in mind our weddings are 400 miles apart.
Yeah... people sometimes suck. But you have to be the bigger person. Just keep telling yourself that yours is going to be better anyway!
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I would be pissed...and yes, some comments are quite nasty...what if it was your wedding people?? I highly doubt you would be cheering for that person...
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