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I have short curly hair that comes just to the nape of my neck although the top and sides are a bit longer.  I am looking for something to wear in my hair (no veil) that will tie together the crystals on my gown and my great grandmother's pearls.  This sounds easy, right?  So I thought at first...

I'm trying to decide between some headbands with a larger piece at the back on the side, or something soft with hair combs to pull the hair out of my face.  Either way, I know I want to keep it short and curly.

Any pictures or opinions would be greatly appreciated.

My hair looks something like what is in the picture attached.

My hair is something like this.

OK, so this time I'm pretty sure the picture will be there :)