(Closed) Short, quick, to the point vent…

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Don’t tell the lame-os your great ideas anymore. Tell us instead! 😉 Let everyone else be surprised!

Post # 4
2634 posts
Sugar bee

For situations like this I like to use the standby, “well thank you for your opinion, I’ll take that into consideration” just to get people to shut up. 



Post # 5
399 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I am sending hugs your way!  It is amazing to me how there are some topics when people feel totally free to provide unsolicited advice: weddings, pregnancy, parenting.  And those are some of the most emotionally wrought experiences a person can go through.  Jeez. 

I recommend you read the blog “A Practical Wedding”.  She gives some great advice on how to do your wedding your way, and how to deal with the outside world.

Feel better!

Post # 7
359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yes, tell us! We’re date twins, and I could use ideas to copy. What is your cake topper?

Post # 8
883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Cheer up jezzybell – itll get better!!  I looove that you have rainbowbright as your avatar! 🙂

Post # 9
751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

remember you are the one getting married its what you and your fi want. I got all kinds of crap to but in the end i know what is going to make me happy on my big day better then anyone else.

Post # 10
601 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Heinz Chapel Ceremony, Museum Reception

Man, I feel like brides post about this same idea so often! Doesn’t it just drive you crazy? Why in the world is it so common, and why do so many people apparently feel like it’s totally okay to just share all the things they don’t like about your wedding with you? That sucks, jezzybell!

Post # 11
357 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Jezzybell, keep your chin up and think happy thoughts.  Even if the happy thoughts that you’re thinking are how much you’d like to punch that other person in the face while they’re standing there raining on your parade!  LOL!

We all deal with it, so just bring it here and we’ll keep you cheered up about your awesome plans!

Post # 12
100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Sorry!  It is irritating when people tell you what to do…  I just respond with a noncommittal smile.  Can you stop talking to people about the details?  No one can criticize you if they don’t know what you’re doing. 🙂

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