Should a stepmom be allowed to invite guests to the shower?

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@krm1259:  Yes, I think you should be asking the stepmother for her input, since she likely will be the point of contact for any family and friends that should be included from the bride’s father’s perspective.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I would say sure! As long as there aren’t any space/budget constraints it would be nice for her to be included and invite family and friends. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I say invite one friend or two, no biggie.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@krm1259:  I would ask for her input, but then run the names by the bride before issuing invitations.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@krm1259:  mmm, well its only supposed to be people invited to the wedding….so really it shouldnt be too much. You could ask her if theres anyone attending the wedding who she thinks should be invited, but chances are the only friends who are that close would probably be mutual friends of her and the father???

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