Should he stay or should he go? Help!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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1997 posts
Buzzing bee

It’s you’re birthday weekend. I don’t think it was selfish of you to ask him to stay home at all. 

Post # 3
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2054 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Anon2Bee:  Not at all selfish haha.. I am so much worse about my bday 😀 Bdays are important, friends/family will understand 😉

Post # 4
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580 posts
Busy bee

Its not selfish. Don’t think twice about it. If you always go to his family’s then it’s called compromise. This year you do what you want to do. Pretty simple. Don’t feel bad 🙂

Post # 6
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2946 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Anon2Bee: it’s your birthday and you’re an adult so do what you want. 

Post # 7
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103 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Girl, it’s your birthday weekend! Celebrateeee! You shouldn’t be left by yourself on your birthday while he goes and chills with his family, I would be 100% not ok with that if it were me. Besides, you said you spend every long weekend with them– one at home isnt going to hurt. :))

Post # 8
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8876 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

You deserve to be a priority. you have nothing to feel guilty about. If you don’t speak up, everything will go on catering to those who do. 

Post # 9
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3334 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Have you ever talked about him changing jobs? It sounds like this one really eats up your relationship. We were in the same position and just recently decided it just wasnt worth the stress and grief. Hubby is switching careers. We just miss each other WAY too much.

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