(Closed) Should i ask for a ring

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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200 posts
Helper bee

I think that is a romantic story: you met, you fell in love, you decided together that you want to be together.:)

If the ring is important to you then you should absolutely tell him so. I can’t imagine why you wouldn’t.  

 

Post # 4
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389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

i agree, I think you should let him know that you would like an e-ring.  i would bring it up around the time that you and he are planning for his parents to ask your parents for your hand in marriage.

Do you think that perhaps the "negotiating bride price" part of the ritual might end up with him also presenting you with a ring (and that you might just be unaware of it?)  def talk to your FI about it, and see. Good luck! Oh, and congrats!!!! 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Hmmmm, if he wanted to give you a ring he would have given you one; its understandable that you want one but you cant really make a guy give you a ring

 I heard its not a big thing in Europe; maybe he was briought up differently; you can phrase it–I always wanted an engagement ring what do you think?

but you cant demand it

just my opinion

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