Should I ask

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
1534 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

If she is going to be helping, then you should absolutely ask her to be a bridesmaid!  Although dont expect help from all your bridesmaids – I only had 2 out of 5 willing to help and only 1 actually stepped up!

Post # 4
Member
7140 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

if you don’t want her to be a BM don’t ask her.  if she wants to help, let her help.  maybe you will become closer through this process and you can honor/thank her in a different way at the wedding.

 

Post # 6
Member
268 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@thefuturemrsD:  If you were previously on the fence and you want to have her as a bridesmaid, then ask her.  It seems like she’s willing to be a help to you, and it could be a great opportunity for you two to get closer.

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