(Closed) Should I break off my engagement?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I break off my engagement?
    Yes, run fast! : (507 votes)
    98 %
    No, there may still be hope! : (3 votes)
    1 %
    Other, Please Explain. : (5 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    1775 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Run fast. This isn’t a failure on your part. Please get out.

    Post # 4
    655 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @courageous1:  He sounds bipolar. I would not feel safe around him. I would leave!

    Post # 5
    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    There’s nothing to save here. Get out, and get out fast. Tell your family, pack up, and stay at their place. I quite honestly would not be left alone with him.

    Post # 6
    3786 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    Get out before you end up in the hospital.  Leave right now!!

    Post # 7
    1691 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Holy shit…run.  Just effing leave, now – before it’s not just a bed frame your head is smashed into.

    Post # 8
    224 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    There isn’t even a question.  Leave now and don’t look back.  He sounds extremely dangerous and no person deserves to be with someone who seems to find what he did to you acceptable.    

    Post # 9
    2269 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Get the hell out of there. I am so scared for you right now..

    Post # 10
    38 posts
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Get out now! NO ONE has the right to ever do that to any human being, much less your fiance!! There is no way that this could ever be justified. Leave while you still have the chance…

    Post # 11
    215 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    You will never be able to feel safe around him and be scared anything you say will set him off, get out. you deserve better

    Post # 12
    45 posts
    • Wedding: December 2014

    You do not want to spend the rest of your life fearing the person that you are with. He doesn’t seem to think that he did anything wrong and that’s scary!

    I would stick with the advice and run fast!

    It starts with little things like this and then you end up in the hospital…..Good luck!

    Post # 13
    1552 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011


    you’re with a PSYCHO!

    leave INMEDIATLY!

    it wasnt just a punch… it was a whole phisical fight! why the hell ware you still with him!?

    report him!

    Post # 14
    11343 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    Absolutely, do not marry this man. Confide in some supportive family members or friends and allow them to help ensure that you are able to safely exit the relationship and remain safe after the break up.  I am so sorry this happened to you, but I am thankful that you saw the evidence you needed to see BEFORE you committed your life to him.  

    Post # 15
    145 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2016 - Mexico

    You need to tell your family what he did, get out of there and be around people who support you. That guy sounds dangerous and I fear staying in that relationship could be a scary situation for you. Good luck.

    Post # 16
    275 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Girl! Get out…NOW. This is awful…no man should ever put there hands on you like that. You deserve so much better.

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