(Closed) Should I break the silence?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I think you should- if September is the last time you two have spoken, I see no problem with “checking on the timeline” six months later. Just make sure to get everything out in the conversation so you don’t have to keep bringing it up. as him about the marriage timeline of summer 2012 and just say that a lot of planning goes into the wedding, starting with the STDs and the invites and picking a venue so you would need at least one year from the date of engagement to plan before you are married. If you put it in those terms if will show him that he needs to propose soon to make the timeline. Godd luck!!!

Post # 4
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Newbee

just my opinion, but i don’t really understand the whole “silence about engagement” concept. i mean, sure you don’t want to bring it up every 5 minutes and you don’t want to scare a guy off or anything, but getting married is a huge life decision, and i don’t think it should fall completely on the guy to decide when its best to move forward.

i think you should try talking to him about how you feel. πŸ™‚

good luck!!! 

Post # 5
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Newbee

oooh also, love the rings!!! πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I don’t think a woman should EVER feel afraid, or walk on eggshells with her man about something she truely cares about and that causes her stress or anxiety.

Tha being said, be strong and BREAK IT! πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

@LuvShoes: That was a great way to put that. Definitely going into my “note to self” box. πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Newbee

glad you had such a good talk with him!!! sounds like it will happen soon for you guys! πŸ™‚  now that you know how he feels, you can just relax and go back to enjoying the relationship again πŸ™‚ hope you guys find a good place to move to, i’m sure you will!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

Glad you had the conversation- fingers crossed for the contract so you both can move forward.

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