Post # 1
DH and I discussed at length to plan on officially TTC at the end of November. We chose this time because of a big trip to New Orleans we had planned in November. We agreed that I should go ahead and stop taking the pill to get my cycle regulated and have been using other forms of protection.
Since this discussion our plans to go on our trip fell through. The idea of getting pregnant is all I can think about and I’ve thought that it may not be such a bad thing to go ahead and start trying! I know it’s only a few months away but I just can’t wait!
What would you do? Should I bring it up or just continue on with our plan and just enjoy the time we have together (assuming we are lucky enough to not have trouble!)
Side Note: It’s definitely not something he would freak out about because I know he’s excited, but I don’t want to seem like I’m going back on my word. This isn’t a huge deal, I’m just curious about opinions!
Post # 3
Why wouldn’t you? Go tell him and make a baby RIGHT NOW!!! Lol in all seriousness though I don’t know why you wouldnt if he’s excited to start trying.
Post # 4
I would definitely say something, if you’re definitely not going on the trip!
Post # 5
I would definitely tell him- it sounds like this will be a welcome and exciting time for both of you, so now seems like a good time!
Post # 6
Of course you should bring it up and discuss it with him… 🙂 nothing wrong w/ talking about it!
Post # 8
he is your husband, you should be able to discuss anything you want with him and not be fearful of his reaction.
afterall, you are only discussing, you are not demanding you start BD right this minute.
you will come to agreement together since the trip fell through.
Post # 9
Just talk to him because he could be feeling the same way you are right now. Good luck making babies!
Post # 10
I’d just talk to him 🙂 Ask him what he thinks about starting casually trying right away, since your trip has now been cancelled and see what he says. He might have reasons to keep waiting, or maybe he’s thinking the same thing as you and hasn’t mentioned it either. 🙂 All the best and good luck! I don’t think he’ll think you’re going back on your word by asking, you won’t know the answer until you ask the question! I hope you get your BFP and sticky baby whenever you start trying!
Post # 11
Of course you should tell him! Communication is key in your marriage. 🙂
Post # 12
@Mars62312: I would definitely bring it up, especially if he is going to be excited. Your story reminds me of our TTC tale. We were going to wait until late fall, then September, and one night I am just like, “What if we tried now?” He said, “I would be excited.” So we did, and here we are. 🙂
Post # 13
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Since the trip isn’t happening I would definitely talk to him about it. You aren’t going back on your word, the trip was the reason for waiting so now that you’re not going on the trip, it would make sense to start ttc. I would ask him his thoughts and see if he can come up with a good reason for still waiting until November.