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Should I change my neckline to a sweetheart?

posted 1 year ago in Dress
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  • poll: sweetheart or leave it alone?
    sweetheart! : (47 votes)
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    leave it alone! : (28 votes)
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    I don't care! : (4 votes)
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    JennyChicago    August 7, 2010  

    O.k so I finally decided I really like my dress. Only problem is that I think I want to chane the neckline into a sweetheart. Here are some pros and cons

    Pros

    It will make my boobies look better :)

    It will make my dress more interesting/flattering

    I won't look like a mummy hahaha

    Cons

    Expensive alterations

    My first fitting isn't till 3 weeks before the wedding, don't know if that enough time!

    what if I don't like it?

    what are your opinions ladies?

    heres a picture of my dress (keep in mind it's about 2 sizes to small and rhe pic was taken with a cell)

     

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    beekiss2      

    Given it's coming in three weeks before the wedding, I'd be hesitant.  However, I do think a sweetheart neckline would look great on you, not that it already doesn't :)

     
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    stephanie63087    May 14, 2011   Fort Wayne, Indiana

    sweetheart definately!!! i think it looks goo already but that will look rrreeeeallllyyyy good! :)

     
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    reneeheartssam    January 15, 2011   New Zealand

    I think it is stunning how it is - your boobs look great in it already and who needs the extra stress of alterations!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I think it looks great on you the way it is, but I am partial to sweetheart necklines, so if it were me, I would change it to one.

     
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    Miss Sparklespaniel    November 13, 2010   VIC, Australia

    I'm a massive fan of the sweetheart neckline (my own dress has a sweetheart neckline) BUT given that you've only got 3 weeks I wouldn't go there. If it's difficult or they botch it you've left yourself with VERY little time to do anything about it. The dress looks fabulous as it is, so I wouldn't risk it!

     
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    baldor1    May 7, 2012   Southern California

    I am a sweetheart neckline person too and if you had more time, I would say go for the sweetheart. But with so little time I'd be hesitant to do it especially if things don't work out like you expect.

    I think the dress looks great on you already as is!

     
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    stacyreeves    July 3, 2011   Dallas, TX

    Definitely!  It's sooooooo much more flattering.  Straight across necklines are a little harsh IMO, and they draw attention to arms and armpits which are usually the least flattering part for most of us.  A sweetheart tends to hide those pudgy bits a little and draws attention up to the face.  It doesn't have to be a full-on sweetheart - even just a little dip will help soften the edge and make it more feminine and flattering.

     
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    TealaB    May 7, 2011   Vancouver

    Can you move up your fitting date to get one ASAP?  WHile I love sweetheart necklines, it looks great as-is also.  Maybe feel out the seamstress and see how large of an alteration it will be.  They'll be able to let you know if you should be concerned about how close the wedding date is...

     
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    JennyChicago    August 7, 2010  

    @TealaB: I wish I could move it up! The dress isnt'even in yet! I am freaking out!

     
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    sapphirebride    December 31, 2010   Seattle, WA

    I think the sweetheart would be nice, but it doesn't sound like you have time. You could talk to a seamstress about their opion given the dress and see whether they have time.

     
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    Charm bracelet    July 24, 2010   Placentia, CA

    I think you should do it if you really want it! I am a big fan of necklines too!

    Here are the rebuttals to your cons:

    -my sweatheart neckline change only cost $35

    -They can do it in less than a day or two, if they know the wedding is soon. (It literally only takes about 20 min to sew, if they aren't cutting the dress.)

    There are two ways to do a sweetheart neckline.  Ask your seamstress for details.  The first way, they actually cut the material to be more heart shaped.  The second way they just gather the material around the boobs and squeeze it to make the heart shape.  I would suggest you go with the second one because if you don't like it, then you just cut the thread that is holding it together. 

     
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    shaunna    October 9, 2011   UK

    I'm actually a big fan of straight necklines and I think your dress looks great as is.

     
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    Kimberly1010    October 3, 2010   New York

    THis may not be entirely helpful but either way I think the dress looks great...

     
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    lanany10    October 2, 2010   NYC

    yes!  go for it!  i also have a straight neckline that i'm changing to a sweetheart.  i think it adds a nice detail to the dress.

     
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    jenandchris    October 22, 2011   live in Brooklyn, getting married in MA

    I would be worried about time.  I also think it looks great as is!

     
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    TingTing    September 12, 2010   Los Angeles

    i didn't vote because i'd suggest you do a "scoop" rather than a sweetheart. your current neckline has a slight scoop already, making it deeper will look very nice and i think fits the dress style better than a sweetheart neckline.

     
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    DanielleZara    August 21, 2010   California

    DO SWEETHEART :)

     
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    VeronicaH    April 24, 2010  

    Don't do it! Sure, sweetheart necklines are pretty, but there isn't enough time to avoid a potential disaster. Maybe you can focus on your accessories.

     
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    bridesmomma    June 19, 2010   Northern California

    I think it looks great how it is!

     
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    DanielleZara    August 21, 2010   California

    Or, how about a SOFT sweetheart? I think that would be better...and involve less risk if you're nervous about it.

     
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    jaglynn17    July 2, 2011   Westlake, CA

    I love sweathearts but i think the dress is great as is. The neckline of the dress runs great with the other lines and ruffels of the dress.  I wouldnt change it.  You look great now.

     

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