- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
Well, I called my sister and she must have accidentally pressed a button on her cell phone and I immediately heard her having a conversation with someone. She was saying a bunch of mean things about me to her employer/friend.
My sister was visiting my FI and I a few days previous and he was saying that after he was widowed he did not think he would ever marry again but then he met me “the woman of his dreams” etc. We were trying to cheer her up and convey that there is someone for everyone and she should keep up the dating if she wanted to find a bf.
So, when I overheard her talking about me to her friend she was saying…”my sister’s fiance says SHE is the woman of his dreams??? She’s gained 50 pounds, wears no makeup, lets her hair airdry and wears it flat on her head and SHE is the woman of his dreams. THAT is his dream girl?!???” referring to me of course. I hung up right away as I didn’t want to hear anymore!
This was about 4 months ago and I never said anything to her becasue she has emotional problems and problems with depression and other things but I am finding that it is difficult to be friendly with her. I am actually kinda mad at her for several things but she’s always so upset you can never broach any of these subjects with her. I hesitate to let let her into my world/space because wherever she goes, drama always follows and she is rude and insulting without even meaning to be. Do you have to be close with your sister and if you don’t want to be do you have to tell her why? I mean the truth can be hurtful but…now everytime my FI tells me I am the woman of his dreams I think of her and all her nasty comments 🙁