Should I create an escort-card for RSVP non responders?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
9859 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

I would include them.  If they’re the type to just show up and you know that then plan for it.  Worst case scenario you have 2 empty seats at a table.  IMO that’s better than not having seats for them.

Post # 4
42101 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t bother with the escort cards. I wouldn’t include them in the seating plan. Most venues do set up an extra table. If they arrived, unannounced they can sut there.

Post # 5
608 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@michellemariabv:  I would first tell them that you havent heard back from them and are concerned as you are making the seating plan and finalizing the food arrangements etc. You would like to know if they are likely coming as you wouldnt want to fall short on seating or meals. Tell them they are the only people you have not heard back from. How rude they are!

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