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I wouldn't worry about it. That's a lot of events all at once (shower, wedding, graduation)! Also, you didn't really know about the event in advance.
Oh my gosh, get rid of that guilt pronto! I'm sure she wasn't expecting anything from you other than for you to come and have a good time. She must appreciate what you did just a short time ago, that was more than generous. You can't over extend yourself, you can only do what you can do. Don't worry about a thing. I just hope the brownies were good :)
I don't think you should worry about it. You went to the get-together to celebrate her graduation. That should be all that's expected, not an extravagant gift.
Don't feel guilty. I doubt she was expecting a gift. She probably just wanted to celebrate with friends! :)
I wouldn't feel guilty at all. I have never bought a graduation gift for anyone, and I didn't receive any! I am sure she wasn't expecting gifts, and the card was a nice gesture :)
You are fine! I'm sure she didn't expect anything since you just spent mega bucks on her shower! Don't feel guilty! You are good :)
Ditch the guilt! You have nothing to feel guilty for - you were there to celebrate with her and were able to pull together a dish and a card at the last minute! Heck, you deserve some kudos for it!
I wouldn't feel guilty! You just gave her a present for her wedding, people don't need both especially not from friends!
i think you are a most generous person and should not feel guilty! i am sure your friend appreciated everything, including the graduation brownies and card!! it's prolly just bothering you personally cuz you are a "giver" :)
Thanks guys! I appreciate it. I try very hard not to offend, and I was just unsure if others would have responded the way I was feeling that she might.
Thanks much!
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Two weeks ago, my FI and I made a very expensive trip to New Orleans for a friends wedding. I was invited to the shower, got a nice shower gift, we drove to N.O., spent a lot of money on the hotel & gave them a decent wedding gift.
This weekend she graduated from college. She invited a few people over for a "dessert pot-luck reception" at 8:30pm. We found out about this at 10:30 am. We brought over brownies, and I got her a card.. but I couldn't afford a gift card to put inside.
Now I feel guilty that I didn't give her a little something for her graduation - but the other side of my mind says, you just spent 1200 dollars on this girl, she should understand...
What do you guys think? I have a "guilty" feeling, should I?