(Closed) Should I fire my bridesmaid?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I uninvite my "friend" as my bridesmaid?
    umm, yeah duh! : (0 votes)
    no, just deal with it for another 2 months : (3 votes)
    16 %
    talk to her about it first and go from there : (16 votes)
    84 %
    deal with it for another 2 months, then back out of her wedding : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    322 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    She is one of your best friends. Talk to her. Your wedding is first, and I am sure that she sees a lot that she wants too, and is jealous. Just remind here that the only people who might notice are mutual friends, and that the majority will not even attend each wedding. On top of that, guests usually don’t care at all. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    2497 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @lilbadabing:  I’d talk to her first to explain how you’re feeling. She’s probably just feeling stressed from the wedding planning and taking it out on you. Bottling up your feelings will just make you resent her more.

    As for the Pinterest boards, an easy solution would be to unfollow her wedding board. That way she can’t accuse you of “stealing” her pins and you don’t have to deal with that. Search for wedding pins on your own.

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