- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
So, for my wedding my fiance and I are going to the court house and then have a small dinner with mainly family and a couple friends. (our guest list is 20 people).
My sister and my mom really want me to have a bridal shower, but I am hesitant about it. I’m not really comfortable being the center of attention and I’m not to fond of asking people to give us gifts twice.
Plus I don’t know who I would invite to the shower. I have only 2 friends that are still involved in my life since I moved to Montana. So as far as I can see it would be my mom, my sister, my two friends, his mom, and his sister. Just 6 people. It just doesn’t seem worth the hassle to me. We would have to have the shower in Wyoming, so I would have to travel to the shower. Which means that I would have to take a couple days off from work. And my fiance is currently unemployed, so I am the only source of income at the moment. Also, my two friends work at the same place as me so the 3 of us would have to get time off and that is unlikely. We already had a hard time getting time off for the wedding.
The wedding is november 14, in just 45 days.
I’m just not sure what to do! I want to make my family happy, but I just don’t think that I would enjoy the shower.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.